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221 comments on “Declan Oppenheim”

  1. Such a beautiful soul, gone way too soon. I was one of Declan’s teachers at Wesley Elsternwick and his star shone so brightly. Declan was always so spirited and fun to teach – one in a billion!
    Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
    Much love,
    Anne- Louse

  2. Dear Jane, Alan, Charlotte and Family,

    Our deepest condolences on your family’s loss.

    You all did a great job speaking at the funeral conveying Declan’s amazing life and sharing many fond memories. Although we had not seen him for many years, I now feel that we knew him well.

    Our thoughts are with you,

    Love from Jenny and Geoff Stretton

  3. Dearest Alan, Jane and Charlotte,

    My deepest sympathies for the loss of your beloved son and brother. My deepest sympathies to David for the loss of your beloved nephew. My deepest sympathies to Jake, Deb, and Mae (and of course, Hamlet). My deepest sympathies to Miriam, and thank you for so generously and gracefully leading Declan’s tribute.

    Thank you for sharing this most beautiful and moving tribute to Declan.

    Although I did not know Declan or meet him, I now wish that I had.

    The love you have for each other is deep and extraordinary. May your treasured memories of Declan and your relationships with him endure, comfort and sustain you.

    “How can I make the future of the World a little bit better?”
    By following Declan’s example; Live Life: explore, be curious, be adventurous, bold and inquisitive; see the funny side, but be respectful and caring. And above all: be generous and kind.

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

    Much love,

    Craig

  4. Thank you for the privilege of experiencing this terrific celebration of a remarkable young man’s tragically short life.

    Charles Perkins said: We cannot live in the past, but the past lives in us.

    I wish Declan’s wonderful family, especially Jane, Alan and Charlotte, and Declan’s loyal, inspirational and courageous friends Mae and Jake, comfort and strength at this most difficult time.

  5. I am deeply saddened by the news of the loss of such a wonderful young person. I only knew Declan for a few years as one of his teachers at Wesley Elsternwick. He was such a beautiful soul and brought joy wherever he went.
    Rest in Peace dearest Declan.

  6. Dearest Jane, Alan, Charlotte & Family,

    Thank you for sharing the life of your adorable son Declan.

    Such a beautiful courageous celebration of his amazing life.

    It is with a broken heart, deepest empathy, sympathy and compassion I send you a universe of love, strength, courage, and serenity at this difficult time! So very hard to believe!

    It was a privilege to know and love such a beautiful, intelligent, friendly, humorous and kind young man, who will be so sadly missed but always so lovingly remembered.

    Declan always had the time to stop for a chat, and had the knack of somehow making you feel so very special.

    I can only imagine how devastatingly sad it is for you all, but also how proud you all must be, of the amazing young man Declan had become, and all that he had accomplished. Rest in peace gorgeous Declan.

    With all my love always

    Chris C ♥️♥️♥️

  7. Our heartfelt condolences to all who love Declan. We remember, from when we knew him at Wesley Elsternwick, Declan’s brightest-of-eyes, his keen intelligence, his enthusiasm and his unbounded quest for knowledge. It was clear from your words at yesterday’s service that Declan was deeply appreciated, loved and cherished, and well-supported by those closest to him, and we hope that you’ll take some comfort from that. We wish you courage and strength.

    Jennifer Marks, Zoe Kotiadis.

    1. Dear Alan, Jane, Charlotte, Family And Friends
      Thank you for sharing a beautiful and moving tribute to Declan. It was remembering an incredible young man and how he inspired and touched many lives with his enthusiasm and creative talents. He will live on in our hearts and our own lives have been made richer by knowing such an inspirational young man. May he Rest in Peace.
      Andrew and Kay Bright

    2. I was so shocked & deeply saddened to learn of Declan’s passing.
      Kathy & I just watched his funeral service on-line and were so touched, comforted & inspired by each of the loving tributes to such an amazing young man whose life was cut far too short.

      I will always remember my first meeting with him back in 2001 when he was about 5 years old.
      Having just taken over from Norma Nixon, I had settled into her old office when I heard a child shouting loudly & running down the office passage way. He rounded the corner and came to my office doorway looking for Norma’s lolly jar. Looking aghast at the new version of Norma, he momentarily froze whilst I attempted to introduce myself. But then he about-faced and bolted back up the passageway. Subsequently a new lolly jar was reinstated in the accounts office.

      My thoughts & condolences are with you Alan, Jane, Charlotte, Mae, Jake and your wider families. May your loving memories of Declan fill your hearts with ongoing pride and courage.

      Sincerely yours,
      Brian Gridley

  8. My deepest sympathy to Alan, Jane and Family. Words cannot express how sorry and saddened I am to hear of your loss of young Declan. I wish you strength and peace during this very emotional time. Warmest regards, Krissi.

  9. Alan, Jane and Charlotte what a great tribute to a strong and wonderful young man. Beautiful to share the memories after knowing Declan since he was a baby. Best wishes for strength and peace for you all in these very emotional times. Be safe and stay strong. Warmest regards.

  10. Dear Alan,Jane & Charlotte, my deepest condolences to you and your family. Such a beautiful service for one of a kind beautiful soul.. Lots of love and support, Jasmina

  11. Dear Jane & Alan,
    We are deeply saddened by your loss. It was a pleasure to have known Declan.
    Our sincerest condolences.
    Glen & Kim

  12. Dear Alan, Jane and Charlotte
    We are very sorry to hear about Declan and at the same time surprised.
    We cannot express how we are deeply hurt by the news.

    Our deepest condolences to Alan, Jane and Charlotte.
    Masaya has great memories of Declan. He will always be in our hearts.

    We are thinking of you from Japan.
    Yasuko, Toshihiko, Masaya and Akari

  13. Alan, Jan & Charlotte,
    Only a short time that I knew Declan, but what an imprint his footprints have left on mine and my family hearts
    Words cant express how deeply saddened I am and my family too for your loss
    Thanks for sharing this moments with us as part of your big family. sending you all the love in the world

  14. Alan, Jane and Charlotte, today’s service was a beautiful, honest and heartfelt celebration of Declan’s life, he was an incredible young man. May the love you all shared comfort you always.
    My thoughts are with you.
    Carole Barnes

  15. Please accept my deepest condolences for your family’s loss.
    May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you

  16. RIP Declan
    Alan, jane
    Words can’t express how we feel for your loss and our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loved him. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.
    Tarek elmsery
    Jeddah,ksa

  17. Such wonderful memories shared of a remarkable young man.

    My heartfelt condolences to you Alan, Jane and Charlotte along with all of Declan’s family and friends.

    Rest peacefully Declan.

  18. Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute to your wonderful Declan with us. A too short, but so meaningful life he lived. I know his legacy will live on. My thoughts are with you Jane, Alan and Charlotte.

  19. Such wonderful memories shared of a remarkable young man.

    My heartfelt condolences to you Alan, Jane and Charlotte as well as all of Declan’s family and friends.

    Rest peacefully Declan.

  20. What a beautiful service. Thank your letting us be present in this way. Such a tremendous loss. Jane, Charlotte, Alan, you are in our thoughts. Sending you lots of love.

  21. Hi Alan and Jane,

    Please accept my warmest condolences to you

    Regards,
    Mohammad Abu Shamleh

  22. Dear Alan, Jane, family and friends of Declan,
    Thank you for sharing your wonderful tribute to your beautiful Declan. I am so sorry for your loss.
    As the tribute ended I opened my curtains and saw a rainbow stretched across the clouds outside my window – I found it comforting – my hope is that you also find comfort and peace.
    With love and best wishes Carol Macfarlane

  23. Alan, Jane and Charlotte,
    Thank you for sharing your brilliant son’s service with us. It was such a privilege to learn about such a wonderful, kind, intelligent and creative young man. He saw, achieved, experienced so much in his short life and most of all touched the hearts of those closest to him. What a gift our children are to our lives and what a treasured gift Declan was to his family, friends and colleagues. We can all take away some Declan inspiration and do our part to make this world a better place. Condolences to you all. With Love
    Stephen and Lucinda O’Connor

  24. Dear Alan, Jane and Charlotte
    It was our privilege to be apart of today’s celebration of Declan’s life, a life measured by love, creativity, intelligence and a need to make this world a better place. You will have him dear in your hearts everyday and I am so desperately sorry for the loss of your son and brother. My heartfelt condolences to your whole family.
    Sarah Thompson and family

  25. Dear Oppenheim family,
    We were saddened to hear about the passing of your son Declan.
    He will always be in your hearts as he was a remarkable young man.
    May he rest in peace.

  26. Dear Alan, Jane and Charlotte

    Cheryl and I are thinking of you and the family at this time. We were very moved by the ceremony and the loss that you have suffered.

    Cheryl, Keith, Doris and Susan

  27. Alan, Jane, & Charlotte
    Words cant express how deeply saddened I am for your loss.
    I hope that the memory of Declan & the stories people will tell of him will provide you some comfort now and in the years to come.
    Allison & Jarrod

  28. Dear Alan & Jane, so deeply sorry for your loss. The service was a wonderful celebration of a truly amazing young man.

  29. His Journey’s Just Begun – Ellen Brenneman

    Don’t think of him as gone away
    his journey’s just begun,
    life holds so many facets
    this earth is only one.

    Just think of him as resting
    from the sorrows and the tears
    in a place of warmth and comfort
    where there are no days and years.

    Think how he must be wishing
    that we could know today
    how nothing but our sadness
    can really pass away.

    And think of him as living
    in the hearts of those he touched…
    for nothing loved is ever lost
    and he was loved so much.

    Thinking of you,
    Barry and Lesley

  30. Dear Jane, Alan and Charlotte, what a beautiful tribute to Declan. You have captured his life so beautifully. It was an honor to be a part. What a wonderful son, brother, partner and friend. What a wonderful, full, rich life you have given him. Deep condolences and sending you prayers and thoughts always.

    Love Marnie, Garry, Matthew and Christopher

  31. Dear Jane, Alan and Charlotte,

    It was such a privilege to be able to live stream Declan’s funeral today.
    It was a truly amazing experience giving me a clearer understanding of your beautiful son Declan.
    May his soul rest in peace.

    Love Caroline Hurley

  32. Dear Alan, Jane, Charlotte and all of Declan’s friends and family,
    Sending you all my love and deepest sympathies. Thankyou for inviting me to be a part of such a beautiful service for such an amazing young man.

  33. Dear Alan, Jane, Charlotte and all of Declan’s friends and family,
    Sending you all my love and deepest sympathies. Thankyou for inviting me to be a part of such a beautiful service for such an amazing young man.

  34. Thank you for such a lovely service. We have been incredibly saddened by the loss of Declan and send our thoughts and love to your family and Declan’s friends.
    Carolyn, James & Rosie

  35. Dear Alan,Jane and Charlotte
    Declan will be so missed – such a beautiful soul.
    My thoughts are with you at this sad time . Love Sandy Pow xxx

  36. Dear Alan, Jane and Charlotte, A lovely service celebrating the life of Declan. Thank you for allowing me to be part of it in some little way. I have no doubt there will be a lot of great memories caught inside your hearts. Regards, Dominique Ries and Family

  37. Dear Alan, Jane and Charlotte,

    A beautiful celebration of Declan. In such a short time, he touched so many lives for the better.

    Heartfelt condolences to you, your family and Declan’s loved ones.
    Helen

  38. That was such a beautiful service celebrating Declan’s life. It was wonderful to hear all the stories about Declan, showing how all through his life he could be wickedly funny, brilliantly perceptive, and amazingly kind. Declan enriched the lives of all those who knew him, including our family. He will be greatly missed, but not forgotten, as he is now a part of all our hearts. Our love goes out to you Alan, Jane & Charlotte.

  39. Dear Jane, Alan, Charlotte and family,
    Thank you for your gracious and beautiful service celebrating Declan and all his Joy.
    Love and prayers surround you

    Love Josie, Darren , Olympia and Angelo

  40. Dear Alan, Jane and Family,
    Thank you for allowing me to be part of such a moving and heartfelt celebration of Declan’s life. My thoughts are with you all and I am so sorry for your loss.

  41. A beautiful service put together to celebrate a wonderful life. We may have been joining virtually but the whole Ego family was there holding your hands. Thank you for sharing your stories and memories of Declan with us. May he live on in your heart & the love you shared comfort you through this difficult time.
    Sending Love, strength and healing to Alan, Jane, Charlotte and all those Declan loved.

  42. Dear Jane, Alan ,Charlotte and family,
    Thank you for your gracious and beautiful service today and your memories of Declan and his joy.
    All our love and prayers
    Josie, Darren, Olympia and Angelo

  43. Our thoughts are with you all at this time. Thank you for sharing this beautiful service celebrating Declan.
    Sending Love

  44. Declan’s kindness, empathy and passion truly made an impact in such a short time.

    The ripples of sadness for this loss, for the many more years to give, the things to do, the potential unfilled, will continue to pain. But may we – with gratitude – take inspiration from Declan to always do what we can to make this world a better place for the future.

    Thankyou for sharing this beautiful goodbye, sending you all the love in the world.

    Renee

  45. Deeply saddened, Declan was an inspiration to all around him, have very fond memories of his younger days, thinking of you all and praying for your healing, comfort, strength and peace during this difficult time
    Love,
    Caesar Ali

  46. Dear Jane, Alan & Charlotte,

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful service. A wonderful celebration of Declan’s life. May all the memories you have bring you comfort and strength during this difficult time.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Love Chris Mitropoulos

  47. Declan you are and will always be the loved son, brother , partner and friend of all who loved and cared for you.

    Know that the shadow of saddness will be washed away by the love of all who knew you.

    Alan ,Jane ,Charolette ,Mae and Jake our deepest condolences

    Carol and I send all our love.

  48. We regret that we were unable to be present to support the Oppenheim and Robson families on this very sad day. A lovely young man gone to soon.

    Love Linda and Peter.

  49. It is with a profound sadness that I wish to convey my deep condolences at your loss of Declan. It pains me to think that I have never met Declan in person but watching the service brought memories of my childhood when as a very young new arrival in the country I was fully welcomed as a member of the Oppenheim family.
    Gerald and later Rae became my Australian siblings, it seems this spirit of thoughtfulness, kindness and compassion for others has passed on through the generations to your Declan.
    I was very moved by the service and feel your pain.

  50. Alan and Jane,
    I am so sorry for your loss.
    Please accept my deepest condolences.
    I am praying for you and your family in this time of sorrow.

  51. Dear Alan and Jane and your family,

    Really sorry for your loss with my deepest deepest condolences. Hope Declan can enjoy in Heaven, may God bless all your family!

  52. Dear Alan and Jane
    No words to express in this difficult situation ,we pray to God almighty to give you strength to bear this loss ,in this difficult time we are always with you.

  53. That was a beautiful service. It was lovely to learn more about his early life. I have fond memories of our late teens when I met Declan through Liza. Highlights include our road trip around Tasmania, camping in Daylesford for New Year’s Eve 2015, and our holiday in Mansfield in 2017. He was always so much fun to have around.
    My condolences go out to Alan, Jane and Charlie.

  54. Dear Alan, Jane and Charlotte,
    Our thoughts are with you in these difficult times.
    It was a beautiful service remembering a remarkable young man.

    Our heartfelt condolences
    Kyle and Carla Biggs

  55. Dear Jane, Alan and Charlotte,
    Thinking of you all. So sorry for your loss.
    May your memories of Declan and the love of your family and friends surround you and give you peace in the days ahead.
    Sincere Condolences.
    Love Lesley and Roger

  56. A deeply thoughtful, moving and courageous service.

    I can think of no deeper sadness for a family.

    Time to find a Kleenex….

    Michael

  57. To Jane, Alan, Charlotte and all the family. A beautiful and moving service. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sending all my love to you in this very sad time. god bless.

    Lots of love

    Rita

  58. A beautiful reflection of Declan’s life. He was loved by so many and will be sadly missed. Condolences to Jane, Alan & Charlotte. Fly high Declan.

    Jenny & Kelvin

  59. Dear Alan, Jane and family,
    thank you for sharing the life of your beautiful son Declan .
    My thoughts are with all of you
    Julian Anderson and family

  60. Alan, Jane and Charlotte, thank you for letting us share this very personal moment. It was an honour to be part of a very moving, special and yes, sad tribute to Declan. Your grief is shared.
    Someone so loved is never lost.

  61. Declan was a great friend. Generous, very funny and inspiring. We will miss him.
    Lots of love to Alan, Jane, Charlotte, May and Jake.

  62. Dear Alan and Jane, our condolences to your whole family. Thank you for sharing and allowing us to witness Declan’s life and how he lived.

  63. Dear Alan, Jane & Charlotte,
    Your hearts must be broken to lose such a loving son & brother.
    Please accept my sincere condolences.
    Jacqui Clayton

  64. What a beautiful, moving and thought provoking tribute to Declan….

    Our sincere condolences.

  65. To dear Alan, Jane, Charlotte and extended family,
    Thank you for allowing me to be apart of Declan’s celebration of life.
    Truly a loved person by all who knew him.
    I remember meeting Declan for probably the second time in Croatia. After nearly a 40 hour flight and about to board a bus to Split, a flash goes off, he had taken my photo. I begged him not to publish it anywhere. He just replied ever so politely where he would publish it, (cheeky bugger)
    My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Love from
    Rosemarie Garsia

  66. Jane, Alan, Please remember that you are not alone. we are always here for you, May your memories give you peace and comfort , Some people come into our lives, leave footprints on our hearts, Wishing you as much peace as possible during this difficult time

    Words cannot express how sorry i am about the recent tragic event that have touched you so deeply. Your loss is huge, and i can only imagine the hurt you feel.

    I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my condolences and my hopes for your healing and renewal.
    May he rest in peace. He will remain in my memory and my heart forever.

    With sympathy

  67. Alan, Jane and Charlotte,

    No words can take away the sadness, our deepest sympathy for your loss.

    Paul and Sue

  68. Dear Jane and Alan,
    Thank you for allowing me a small glimpse in to the life of the beautiful man that Declan was. I am so sorry for your loss.
    Tenille

  69. Dear Alan and Jane,

    Thinking of you & your family and wishing you moments of peace and comfort.

    Regards,
    Hue Chen

  70. You are in our thoughts at this sad and difficult time. We fondly remember the numerous times Declan came to our house in Elsternwick and also at Shoreham. Declan was a remarkable young man with so many talents and a great sense of humour. We remember his smiley face and his unique mind.
    We send you our thoughts and love.
    Simon, Jenny, Hannah, and Paul

  71. Dear Alan, Jane & Charlotte,
    No words seem enough, I am deeply saddened by your loss.
    It was a beautiful service and thank you all for sharing your memories with us.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you all,
    Kindest Regards, Siobhan Gordon

  72. Alan, Jane & Charlotte
    My deepest condolences to your all.
    Such a beautiful service for such a shining light in your lives. My thoughts are with you all today.
    Take comfort in knowing we are all here and thinking of you.

    Julie Anderton

  73. Our deepest condolences Jane, Alan and Charlotte. A beautiful service that showed us all that Declan was, is and always will be an amazing young man. He has lived more and achieved more than most of us do in a lifetime. God rest his soul.

    Our love and thoughts are with you,
    Robynne and Alex

  74. Years pass- memories flood back. Watching David was like watching Gerald circa 1973 (without the Dresden accent). Alan you are a combination of Gerald and Rae; viva Ego Pharmaceuticals (it never was “a dirty word”). Declan’s love of great coffee and disdain of everything Murdoch sit so well with my sensibilities. As they say in Hebrew, “I wish you all a long life”. Vale a creative, handsome soul.

  75. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always. This was a beautiful service for a beautiful soul. May he now rest in peace.

  76. A beautiful reflection of Declan’s life. He was loved by so many and will be sadly missed. Condolences to Jane, Alan & Charlotte. Fly high Declan.

    Jenny & Kelvin

  77. From my family to yours. Sending our Love, thoughts and prayers to you Alan and Jane.
    I hope you feel the collective arms of your Ego Family wrapped around you at this time.

  78. It was a beautiful service that captured Declan’s life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Jane, Alan, Charlotte and Mae.

    Mike and Anne Robson.

  79. So heart-breaking a moment for all of us whose lives Declan touched so deeply. He was a truly extraordinary young man; much adored by his lucky teachers at Wesley, Elsternwick.

  80. Dear Alan, Jane and Charlotte,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. I remember Declan as a lovely young boy who grew up to be a lovely young man. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him.

    Love and support,
    Cathy Emery

  81. Dear Alan, Jane & Charlotte,
    From my Family to yours……We are so sad for your loss.
    You clearly have millions of fond memories of Declan that I am sure you will cherish forever…
    I am proud to have met your son and brother, a very witty, charismatic, intelligent young man that I know whom has friended all of us here at Ego…
    RIP Declan you will be missed

  82. To Alan,Jane and Charlotte my deepest sympathies to you and all family at this sad time at the loss of Declan

  83. I am so sorry for your loss. May all your wonderful memories of Declan help to sustain you during this difficult time.

  84. Alan, Jane and Charlotte, thank you for letting us share this very personal moment. It was an honour to be part of a very moving, special and yes, sad tribute to Declan. Your grief is shared
    Someone so loved is never lost.

  85. A tragic and heartbreaking loss of life.
    Alan, Jane and Charlotte – thinking of you all and wishing you strength.
    A beautiful service and a wonderful tribute to Declan.

  86. My deepest condolences for Alan ,Jane. This is a big loss ,God rest his soul in peace, please accept our sincere condolences .

  87. I have no words that can express my feelings for your Loss. You are in my thoughts.
    Take strength in the wonderful Son,Brother and Partner Declan was and will always be in your Hearts.

    Love
    Lynne Newman

  88. Wonderful service for a wonderful, intelligent and funny boy who grew to be a wonderful, intelligent and funny man.
    RIP Declan.
    Simone

  89. My deepest condolences.
    I am so sorry for the loss of Declan – he was such an amazing and bright soul.
    May he rest in peace.
    He will live on in the beautiful memories you all have with him
    Lots of love,
    Lauren

  90. Words are never enough. But we are all thinking of you. Your strength today was remarkable. I’m sure Declan would want you to find peace even at this enormously difficult time.

    My condolences

  91. Dear Alan & Jane,

    Our hearts are deeply saddened by the sudden loss of your son Declan.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

    Love

    David and Lidia Kranjec

  92. My deepest condolences for Alan ,Jane. This is a big loss ,God rest his soul in peace, please accept our sincere condolences .

  93. My deepest condolences to the Oppenheim family for your tragic loss. It was a beautiful service which really honoured and celebrated Declan’s life. My thoughts are with you.

  94. My most sincere and deepest condolences to Alan, Jane, Charlotte, Jake, Mae, and the Oppenheim family. Declan’s loss is felt deeply in the Ego family and his legacy will live on through his work and the imprint he has left on the lives of those that knew him.
    May the memory of his life bring peace and comfort.
    With deepest sympathy,
    Erin Sears

  95. Dear Alan and Jane

    We are devastated by your loss and our thoughts are with your family and friends.

    It was the most beautiful, honest and heartfelt service today, and a privilege to watch and be able to gain a deeper understanding of your son, whom was always a delight to spend time with. There is no doubt of his skill and unique and highly valuable way of looking at the world.

    We wish you the best through this difficult time.

    Asha Nicholas and Chris Stanley

    1. Dear Alan and Jane,
      Please accept my heartfelt condolences
      May God grant you all enough strength to bear this great loss.
      You are always in our thoughts and prayers.

  96. Thank you for the sharing his life and the joy it brought others. It was always a delight to be a small part of it.

  97. Dear Jane and Alan,
    Please accepts my deepest condolences on the loss of Declan. Wishing you comfort and strength in the days and months to come.

  98. On behalf of the Warner family we offer our deepest condolences to Alan, Jane, Charlotte and the rest of the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May your memories keep you strong and ready for the future.

  99. Declan was a kind, intelligent soul. I will remember our debating days with fondness. My deepest condolences.

  100. My deepest condolences to Alan, Jane, Charlotte and Family for your loss. May your wonderful memories bring you comfort during this difficult time as he lives in your hearts forever.

    Lots of Love,
    Lauren

  101. Please accept my deepest condolences Alan, Jane, and Ego family.
    Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened.
    RIP Declan

  102. Our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loved him. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.

  103. I am so sorry for you loss Lovely Jane and Alan. Please accept my deepest condolences.

    R.I.P Declan

  104. Jane, Alan, Please remember that you are not alone. we are always here for you, May your memories give you peace and comfort , Some people come into our lives, leave footprints on our hearts, Wishing you as much peace as possible during this difficult time

  105. I like to believe that when we lose someone close to us, they still live through us and give us strength. The time we have spent with those we’ve lost makes them part of us.

    I hope you feel surrounded by much love. Our thoughts are with you.

  106. Dear Alan, Jane and Family,

    My heartfelt condolences on your loss.

    May God’s peace and comfort be with you in this difficult time. Please take care…

    With lots of love,
    Li Ting Tan

  107. A beautiful service to commemorate a beautiful person. A life lived to the full but far too short. Vale Declan

  108. Posted on behalf of Meriem El Gharras

    My deepest condolences to Alan, Jane and Charlotte and the whole family.
    My prayers and thoughts are with you

  109. My deepest condolences to Alan and Jane and the whole family.
    My prayers and thoughts are with you.

    1. Heartfelt Condolences for Alan,Jane and family
      You are in our prayers
      May God grant you all strength and patience to overcome this moment of pain and agony.

  110. Dear Jane and Alan, thank you for sharing with us this service. It was very sad but still full of bright moments. Lots of love to you and the whole family. Magdalena

  111. Posted on behalf of Mohamed Tarek

    Dear Alan & Jane
    I would like to express my condolences on the loss of your son.
    I offer my thoughts, prayers and well wishes during this dark time.
    May my condolences bring you comfort and may my prayers ease the pain of this loss.

  112. Posted on behalf of Abdulmonem Shhimeh

    مع خالص التعازي اتمنى ان يرقد بسلام

  113. Goodbye musketeer, thank you so very much for all the memories. Your fierce friendship and support, offbeat humour that would always catch me off guard and cause long laughing fits; and the endlessly entertaining debates and conversations we had both during our school years and whenever we would run into each other in the days after (we would always seem to easily pick up from the last time we left off) are all things that will continue to make me smile. Love and hugs.

  114. Dear Alan & Jane

    My heartfelt condolences for his sad demise & our thoughts & prayers are with your family , may god give you enough strength to overcome his demise

  115. Words just can’t say enough. Know that I mourn with you and pray for your strength through this painful loss. With heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your son, Declan. May the love, prayers and support of your family and friends bring you comfort during this most difficult time.

    1. What a beautiful service celebrating the life of Declan. May your memories of Declan surround you and give you strength and peace. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

  116. Dear Jane , Alan and Charlotte.. I may never fathom how painful this loss is for you, please be assured that you are in my thoughts and prayers. please accept my sincere condolences

  117. I am sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you in these difficult times. May your memory of Declan surround you and give you strength and peace. Please accept my sincere condolences for your huge loss.

    Saeed khouly

  118. We are sorry for your loss. He was such a great person; He will live on in our memories forever

  119. Dear Alan & Jane
    I am sorry for your loss. He was such a great person; He will live on in our memories forever.

  120. Dear Alan ,Jane and family, Heartfelt condolences on this sad loss. I pray that the lord will continue to hold you up during this trying time and be your sustenance in the period ahead. “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want”… Psalm23.

  121. My heartfelt condolences to Alan,Jane and Charlotte
    May Declan rest in peace.

    Lots of love,
    Yvonne Law

  122. My deepest condolences for Jane, Alan, and Ego family.
    Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened,
    RIP Declan

  123. Words can’t describe how sorry I am at this loss. You’re in my prayer.My deepest condolences for Alan, Jane and Charlotte.

    Love and support,
    Elham Hammad

  124. My deepest condolences for Alan, Jane, and Ego family.
    We are so sorry ,Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened .

  125. My deepest condolences for you for your loss ,
    Our hearts , thoughts & prayers are with you in this situation

  126. Dear Alan &Jane,
    Our heartfelt condolences to you and may God bless you with patience.
    Abdelkader Tawakol

  127. My heart is filled with great sadness on the passing of Declan. I admired his openness, warmth and gentle acceptance of others. He was a very fine young man who gave much to all those who knew him. The world is a poorer place for his absence. Much love to all of Declan’s family.

  128. Jane, Alan & Charlotte,
    We are very saddened for your loss. We will never forget the image of Declan energetic & bright face. May Allah grant the family the strength to bear his untimely passing. Please accept our deepest & heartfelt condolences.

  129. خالص التعازي لعائلة جين وآلان وإغو.
    خسارتك تركتنا جميعًا حزنًا للغاية ،
    RIP Declan

  130. My heartiest sympathy goes to you and your family. Today your grief has touched us all. Let us share the pain together.

  131. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.
    We are sending a strong, tight hug to you Alan and jane and sharing with you our love and prayers
    RIP Declan

  132. Our deepest consequences to all Ego family.

    May Declan always be in your heart and never forgotten.
    God bless you and your family.
    RIP Declan

  133. My sincere condolences at this time of immeasurable loss. Know that you are in my prayers.

    With love and deepest respect,
    Jules McKie

  134. No words can express my deepest condolences for your big loss Mr Alan. May you & your family can pass this disaster.
    With sympathy
    Omar almukadem

    1. Dear Alan &Jane,
      Our heartfelt condolences to you and may God bless you with patience.
      Abdelkader Tawakol

  135. I am so sorry for your loss, I was heartbroken by this sad news.
    I want you to know that you and Jane are in my thought and prayers, Please accept my condolences and my hopes for your healing and renewal. May he rest in Peace. God bless his soul.

  136. Deccles,

    Thanks for the energy, joy and delight that you have enriched the lives of others around you. It was always a pleasure.

  137. I have fond memories of my time with Declan when I worked on a literature review with him not long after I started at Ego. I was amazed how quickly he picked things up, and the way he lit up with enthusiasm when something caught his interest. Declan’s loss will be felt so deeply by so many.
    My deepest condolences.

    Josh Townley

  138. Jane, Alan and Charlotte
    My thoughts and prayers are with you all today
    May Declan always be in your hearts and never forgotten.

  139. DearJane and Alan and Charlotte, thinking of you at this time with much love to you all and your extended family. May Declan’s love and memory hold you forever in your hearts. Eileen Macpherson

  140. My heartfelt condolences go out to you Alan and Jane. We will surely miss the presence of a truly lovable and kind person.

  141. This is a huge loss, our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loves him. Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss

  142. Thinking of you all Oppenheim family. My deepest condolences during this sad time and may you be surrounded with strength and compassion.

  143. No words can express my deepest condolences for this big missing Mr Alan.May You & your family can pass this disaster .
    With sympathy
    Omar almukadem

  144. My deepest condolences to Alan, Jane, Charlotte and the rest of the family. May your beautiful memories bring comfort to you during this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, Stephanie

  145. My deepest condolences for Alan, Jane and Charlotte .
    We are so sorry ,Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened .

  146. My deepest condolences for Alan, Jane and Charlotte. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Love and support,
    Valerie

  147. Dear Alan & Jane,
    I would like to offer you and your family our deepest and most sincere condolences.
    Stay strong

  148. We will never forget the image of his energetic and bright face.
    May God grant him eternal rest and grant you the strength to bear his untimely passing.
    I pray that your heart and soul will find peace and comfort during this difficult period.

    my deepest condolences ..

    Lots of love
    Rafa Ahmed

  149. My very deepest condolences to you Alan, Jane, Charlotte and the rest of the family. May you find the courage, faith, hope, peace and love during this difficult time. Thoughts and prayers of mine and my family are with you.

    Psalms 34:18 – The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.

  150. So sorry to hear about the loss of Declan. He was a fantastic young man and someone who brought a lot of fun and entertainment to our lives, especially during the Wesley College days.

  151. My deepest condolences to Alan, Jane and Charlotte.
    My heart and prayers go out to you at this difficult time.
    May Declan rest in peace.

    Lots of love, Eu Sia

  152. Dear Alan, Jane, Charlotte & Family

    There are no words of comfort at this incredibly sad time for you all.
    Declan was a most lovely young man, super intelligent, caring and very tall.
    My heart aches for you all at this challenging time.
    My love and support to you

    Sandra ( Koula ) Willson

  153. My deepest condolences for Alan, Jane, and Ego family.
    We are so sorry ,Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened .

  154. This is a huge loss, our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loves him. Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss.

  155. Our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loved him. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.

    1. Dear Alan, Jane and Charlotte,

      I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. My heart goes out to you and your family. Please accept our deepest sympathies and our offer of prayers in your time of grief.

  156. Alan, Jane and Charlotte,

    The loss of such a wonderful human as Declan is shattering. My condolences to you all. May his charm and wit, amongst all of his wonderful attributes, remain within our hearts.

  157. Our deepest condolences for the loss of your beautiful boy Declan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless his soul.

    Angela Georgantas and Family

  158. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
    Upendra

  159. No amount of words can describe what you are going through now. Please accept my deepest and heartfelt condolences for your loss.

  160. Our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loved him. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.

  161. My deepest condolences for Jane, Alan, and Ego family.
    Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened,
    RIP Declan

  162. I am so sorry for your loss. It is such an indescribable loss. I will always keep Declan and all my fond memories of him in my heart. He was so brilliant and yet thoughtful and caring. I am so thankful that I got to have him in my life and as my friend. Declan will be sinisterly missed all the way across the world.

  163. Words cannot express how very sorry I am for the loss of your precious Declan. What a kind and brilliant young man. Much love and healing to all xx

  164. Words can’t describe our feelings today. We are here with you to celebrate Declan’s life and remember precious moments with him.
    With love
    Lachlan Erskine

  165. On behalf of all of us at CHP Australia, please accept our sincerest condolences for your loss. We are so very sorry.

  166. Alan, Jane and Charlotte,

    No amount of words can express the pain that you are all going through. Sending you love and prayers and hope you are able to find strength during this time. Always remember the wonderful times, and his enigmatic smile.

    Lots of love and support

    Duncan Macdonald & Andrew Rattle

  167. In moments of a great ordeal, words are useless. God rest his soul.My sincere condolences to your family on the immeasurable loss you suffered. Know that you are in my prayers

    Lots of love and support,
    Sharon Button

  168. This is a huge loss, our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loves him. Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss

  169. Alan, Jane and Charlotte,

    Thinking of you all and wishing you peace and comfort as you remember Declan. I hope you find the courage to face the days ahead, and remember all of the wonderful times and memories you shared with him.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Love Christine

  170. Our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loved him. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.

  171. My deepest condolences for Alan, Jane, and Ego family.
    Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened
    We are so sorry.

  172. My deepest condolences for Alan, Jane, and Ego family.
    We are so sorry ,Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened .

    1. My deepest condolences for Jane, Alan, and Ego family.
      Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened
      RIP Declan

  173. My deepest condolences to Alan, Jane, Charlotte and the rest of the family. May Declan always be in your hearts and never forgotten. He will now watch over you and be close during happy and sad times. Sending all our love and support to you and the family during this difficult time. RIP Declan.

    Lots of love
    Rae

    1. Words just can’t say enough. Know that I mourn with you and pray for your strength through this painful loss. With heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your son, Declan. May the love, prayers and support of your family and friends bring you comfort during this most difficult time.

  174. My deepest condolences for Alan, Jane, and Ego family.
    Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened .
    RIP Declan

  175. My deepest condolences for Jane, Alan, and Ego family.
    Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened,
    RIP Declan

    1. My deepest condolences for Jane, Alan, and Ego family.
      Your loss has left all of us deeply saddened
      RIP Declan

      1. The service was a beautiful celebration of his life. We may have attended virtually but the whole Ego family was there in spirit holding your hands, thank you for sharing your stories and memories of Declan with us.
        May the love you shared live on in your heart xxx
        Sending strength & healing to Alan, Jane, Charlotte and all those loved by Declan.

    2. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.
      We are sending a strong, tight hug to you Alan and jane and sharing with you our love and prayers
      RIP Declan

  176. This is such a huge loss.Our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loved him. Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss.

    1. Words just can’t say enough. Know that I mourn with you and pray for your strength through this painful loss. With heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your son, Declan. May the love, prayers and support of your family and friends bring you comfort during this most difficult time.

  177. Words cannot express how sorry i am about the recent tragic event that have touched you so deeply. Your loss is huge, and i can only imagine the hurt you feel.

    I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my condolences and my hopes for your healing and renewal.
    May he rest in peace. He will remain in my memory and my heart forever.

    With sympathy

    Mohamad Osama Sarmini

  178. I’m sorry for your son, With my prays to his soul to rest in peace.
    The news was shocked to me and it caused me much sorrow.
    Hope for you and your family that have in your hearts there will be patience for this sadness.

    1. Words cannot express how sorry i am about the recent tragic event that have touched you so deeply. Your loss is huge, and i can only imagine the hurt you feel.

      I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my condolences and my hopes for your healing and renewal.
      May he rest in peace. He will remain in my memory and my heart forever.

      With sympathy

      Mohamad Osama Sarmini

      1. Our heart goes out to him and to everyone who loved him. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.

  179. We were so deeply saddened by the passing of Declan Oppenheim. Our enduring memory of Declan is of an incredibly intelligent, insightful, caring and thoroughly lovely young man. His extraordinary talent for film-making was evident from a young age and we will always cherish the photographs and videos he made while at Wesley College. May he rest in peace. Our heartfelt thoughts are extended to his parents, Jane and Alan, and his sister Charlotte.

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