Goodbye dear friend of 50 years. I will always remember our very happy times in Holloway when we were just 21. You were one of the best buddies I ever had, and I will remember you forever. Thank you for the wonderful holiday we spent with you, Maureen and all your family in Sept 2018, we loved every minute. Sheila and I still say that it was the best holiday we have ever had and we doubt that it will ever be matched. We look all the time at the dozens and dozens of fantastic photos we have of the time we all spent together with you and the family, and we will treasure them, along with our beautiful memories, forever. Rest in peace my beautiful friend, I will miss our FaceTime chats AND YOU very much. Fondest farewell and love from Dot & Sheila. U K. XX
I did not have the opportunity to know you for long, but wanted to thank you, what a lasting impression you made Doreen!
To your beautiful family, I promise to help them find the home that was meant for you all.
May you Rest In Peace knowing the world is so much better for having you in it beautiful, kind and strong lady.
Much love to Maureen, Nick and Ronan.
Doreen was our tireless Leader for 20 years , who leaves behind a legacy of dedication, compassion, and love. Doreen fought for some of the most vulnerable people in the Manningham community. Doreen did this With a heart full of love and changed the lives of so many that felt they had nobody in their corner. And her support to the SASSING choir will be missed.
Condolences to all her family.
Doreen inspired so many myself included. Doreen started as my manager and become my friend and mentor. I learnt to be a better person because of her. No matter where we go, we take a bit of Doreen with us. Thank you for all you have done for me, your community and family. Vale Doreen
My sincere condolences to Doreen’s family, friends & her many Doncare work colleagues. Doreen will always hold a special place in my heart. Without her passion for supporting woman & survivors of domestic violence, I would not be the woman I am today. I think of Doreen every time I sing.
A wise woman; a caring colleague and a beautiful supervisor who supported my through some of my biggest challenges. On behalf of the young people and families you supported; cared about and wored with – Thank you.
What a woman! What a caring, compassionate and driven leader! Doreen you truly were one in a million and like so many others, I loved you. Its truly cruel that you won’t get to enjoy a long, well earned retirement with your family and that you have been taken too soon. But, what an extraordinary life and what a huge contribution you made to the people of your adopted country. I honour you today, and always. As we would say in New Zealand, a mighty Totara (tree) has fallen. Nga mihi, (thank you), and Arohanui (big love).
To Maureen, Nick, Roman and the rest of your family. my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to you all.
So very sad to say goodbye to such a wonderful woman and so very sorry that Maureen, Nick, Roman and the rest of Doreen’s extended family weren’t all able to be together today to share comfort and grief as we farewelled Doreen.
I was privileged to work with Doreen at Doncare. She gave me a lot of support personally when I was going through some difficult times.
Doreen was an inspiration. I learnt such a lot from her about ethical and compassionate leadership and management combined with a driving determination for social justice.
For Doreen herself, I’m so very sorry that her time with her beautiful family, friends, colleagues and others around her was cut short.
Vale Meredith Bubner
Sending heartfelt condolences to Doreen’s family during this difficult time. May you take comfort in the happy memories and the knowledge that she loved you all dearly. It was a pleasure to be part of her Doncare team a few years back. Doreen was a true champion for those in need and will not be forgotten x
What a beautiful life so passionately lived.
Your skill of making everyone feel valued was amazing. I will never forget the period I was a volunteer and then a staff member at Doncare.
Doreen you took me into your heart and I have you in mine. You took the bull by the horns and worked with love and wisdom and gentleness and righteousness and compassion. You were so proud of your 3 daughters and your grand children, and Nick and Roman. A special gentleness when you share about your “very dear Friend” Maureen. An AGM at the Veneto club was a joyous celebration with possibly one of the largest gatherings at an AGM.Truly a team player – no one left out. Presentations, acknowlegements, Laughs, good food, always looking a million dollars. you stretched the Dollars, 600 volunteers at some stages. We love you and miss you.
Dearest Aunty Doreen
How foolish of us to feel we always had more time. My girls watched in awe as your peers spoke of your achievements and dedication to those in need. A life cut short, if only we had more time. I watch and listen as my girls develop into young ladies and realize they have a lot in common with their great aunty Doreen. An inspiration that will live on in all our hearts forever. We will love you always. Lee, Tanya, Talisha and Sarah. X
To my incredible Aunty Doreen.
Why did it take your passing for me to find out just how much of a contribution you made to Australia?
Such a humble amazing person and I am so sorry I never took the time to find all of this out. Life is so short yet you contributed so, so much to the community and to your family.
The girls watched the service online and they were amazed at your achievements. You are an inspiration to them and me and I am so sorry I never took that extra time to know you better.
My favourite Aunty and an absolute hero to the community, especially in the fight against injustice and in the support of victims of domestic violence.
Never forgotten. Love you x
My condolences and those of Helen, to you Maureen and to your family and to the amazing breadth of people which Doreen touched. Doreen’s life and yours with her truly transcends the everyday.
I had the honour and privilege of being both a contributor to fundraising for Doncare and a recipient of their help in my time of need (Doncaster Balcony Collapse). Doreen has left an imprint in my heart that will never be erased. Her presence will still be felt for generations to come as she has left such an amazing legacy! RIP to a beautiful woman.
Heartfelt condolences to Maureen and to all of Doreen’s family.
It has been an immense privilege for both of us to have known Doreen over many years and admire her inspirational leadership, fearless advocacy and tireless work empowering so many children and families.
On a personal note, we will always be grateful to both Doreen and Maureen for supporting our daughter Karen, during a difficult period in her life, as her ‘aunties’, and then years later joining us at Magnetic island and being MC at Karen and Dave’s wedding.
Doreen will always be loved, missed and have a special place in our hearts.
ITWas such a lovely service for DOREEN i got to learn so much about her all the wonderful things she had done, such a wonderful person, REST IN PEACE DOREEN.
Some people come into our lives for awhile, and then have to leave. Doreen from the beginning of my time volunteering in the office at Doncare, always acknowledged my presence. A smile from afar, or a passing ‘hello how are you?’ and often times a gentle hand on the shoulder. Her presence was formidable, authentic and all consuming.
She left a legacy that will remain, and I thank her for her part in my journey at Doncare.
My sincere condolences to all her beloveds.
So many memories of an amazing person. I had the privilege of working with Doreen the entire time she was at Doncare. Her support, forthrightness, wicked sense of humour, and generous heart will be greatly missed. A one of a kind lady. Sincere condolences to Maureen and family.
I am honoured to have known you. Thank you for your support and care and the many wonderful contributions you have made at MC Square. You are an inspiration to all women and I will never forget your vibrant smile and your endless passion for supporting the community. My sincere condolences to your family and friends.
Doreen
The Doncare Depot team are eternally grateful to you especially and Bendigo Bank for the truck helping to make our job so much easier.
You were always thinking of others and supporting your volunteers.
A person of dignity integrity and humility and passionate Advocate for those in need.
A great pleasure to work for you.
Peter and Depot team
I feel so privileged to have been assigned to work with Doreen and Maureen as Nick’s foster care worker. It must have taken all of their strength to put up with yet another young and relatively inexperienced worker entering their home! Nonetheless Doreen had the grace to allow me to play my role and showed me respect, probably above that which I deserved at the time. Doreen was a fantastic mum! I remember hearing stories about a time when Nick was very young and Doreen cuddled him to her chest over several days and nights while he recovered from illness. The bond between them was undeniable! Despite her busy professional life, Doreen always seemed to have time for her family. I remember many discussions around the kitchen table. Doreen had endless pride in all her family and always beamed as she spoke about Nick’s early development and milestones. She was also a fierce advocate and I was happy to be advocating with her and not against her! Needless to say, I learnt a great deal from Doreen and Maureen. I was also inspired by them. I hope, at least at some level, I can emulate Doreen’s passion in her work, and her dedication and love for her family!
Sincerest condolences to Doreen’s close and extended family, and to the Doncare family, and the myriad of colleagues who are mourning her. I still can’t believe she is really gone from this world. Oh to hear that wonderful laugh again! Or to once more witness her righteous fury at a social injustice. I learned so much from you, dear Doreen, about leadership and love, about courage and the power of connection. Loving service was always your priority, and you tackled every challenge with a daunting eagerness. Your legacy is huge, your life-changing influence will continue to ripple through those you touched. The most true to herself person I have ever worked with. Today I have tears, but always I will have wondered memories.
Dear Doreen, you left this world in a better place than you found it. Your reach and influence is immeasurable. A female leader who lived and breathed her values with heart, compassion and determination. There is no better role model. You will be missed and never forgotten. Our heart goes out to your family.
What a legacy you leave behind. The world is truly a better place for all the hard work you did yourself and that will continue on due to your inspiration. I am grateful for having worked with you and in the wonderful workplace you created at Doncare.
My heartfelt condolences to Maureen, Nick, Roman and all of Doreen’s family, of whom she was so proud. Doreen was always very supportive of me and encouraged me to go outside my comfort zone, for which I am grateful. She was a strong leader and advocate who was not above washing dishes after Doncare events, as she so often did. I think of her whenever I’m in my garden and see an azalea she gave me.
Doreen, thank you for all you did for me, for Doncare staff, clients and volunteers, and for the Manningham community and beyond. May you rest in peace.
Dear Maureen and family. I send my deep condolences to you on losing Doreen so suddenly. I am greatly saddened that I won’t see her again and laugh and talk with meaning as we once did. The beautiful service and tributes recalled her personality and convictions so clearly; she came back to my mind in full Doreen force. I admired her when we worked together at Allambie with other dedicated and passionate people (you Maureen, Barb, Betty, Martin, Mick, Johan, Val, Margie, Aileen, John, Kerry, so many others). We were part of a driven and caring team to care for children and young people. How lucky we were to have each other in that mission. Clearly Doreen’s commitment and endeavour was life long. She led the way Amazon-style (save the bare breast!), and gave people safe and loving passage. May she have that now, and rest in peace, and in our hearts and minds. Sandra
To Maureen and family l am sorry for your loss. Doreen will be greatly missed.
I haven’t had much contact with Doreen over the last couple of years but my time of being one of her managers at Doncare has left me with some very fond memories. Looking at the photos in the videos has brought back a number of those memories – one is that Doreen always had a jacket and a scarf for every situation! We both shared the love of owls and a particular wildlife painter Paul Margoscy. Doreen was a hard working and highly ethical person who was able to have a good laugh when we needed it. she was always happy to chat about her family and catch up about mine as well. I learnt a lot from Doreen and will always appreciate her guidance and support. We had good times together that made up for the difficult stuff. She had a big heart!
She demonstrated honesty, openness, transparency, trust and a belief in others that they could do things they didn’t think possible. For that, I will always be grateful.
Maureen, Roman, Nick, my heart goes out to you. I hope you can hold on to the many good memories you shared with her. I know she loved you very much.
Weren’t we lucky to have had the privilege of knowing you Doreen. I’m especially thankful for the support you have shown over the years,
Maureen, Nick and family, I hope that the days ahead are gentle.
Sincerely
Melinda McGinley
Farewell Doreen. I will never forget how wonderfully supportive you were to me when I needed you. Your passion and commitment will long be remembered as will you. My deepest condolences to Maureen, Nick, Roman and the extended family.
Travel well
Kate Haberle
What a truly amazing, caring and fiercely passionate woman. Thank you, Doreen, for all you have done. You will be greatly missed. May you rest in peace knowing how much you have meant to so many and that so many more will continue to benefit from the services, opportunities and supports you created. My deepest condolences.
Thank you, Doreen, for the spirit of justice and generosity you inspired in me as a volunteer at Doncare.
Condolences to your family and loved ones.
love,
Jeannie
My condolences to Maureen and family.
May you Rest In Peace Doreen.
I always admired your strength and kind heart. I learnt a lot from you while working with you at Allambie and DHS. Many good memories.
Carol
Dear Doreen, my ‘wise owl’ friend. How often I sat in your office at Doncare admiring and counting your amazing collection of owls 🙂 There is so much that I will remember and miss about you. The love you had for your family and friends was palpable and the passion you had for things being right infectious. I’m grateful for having had you in my life and thank you for your love and support during our time at Safe Futures and beyond. RIP
As a volunteer at Doncare for the last 8 years, I admired Doreen immensely for her strength, resilience and most of all her big heart! She ensured that as volunteers, we always felt valued and respected and treated like staff members. May she rest in peace.
Deepest condolences to Maureen and family, Doreen was truly one of a kind. What a privilege and honour to have known her. Doreen you will forever be remembered.
Doreen
You touched many,
You led genuinely,
You paved the way
You inspired others
You supported the vulnerable
You empowered people
You truely were a remarkable woman.
who will be missed by all that knew you
Thank you for being the incredible person, I had the pleasure to work with. May you rest in peace and your memory and passion for social change always drive us towards great things. With love Vicki Martinez
Doreen was an exceptional person who led by example. Doreen you will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences and love to Maureen, Nick, Roman and all your family.
Doreen it was an amazing journey and working with you was an immense privilege. I was lucky to have had the opportunity to work for you and with you at Doncare and to work beside you at Refuge Victoria. Working with you were some of the happiest of my working life – we worked hard and often under difficult circumstance but we certainly had a lot of fun along the way.You taught us all how to work respectfully with and for our clients and how to inspire our workforce and understand that they all bring different perspectives and life experiences to their role.Our thoughts are with your family at this difficult time. We will miss you terribly. All our love Kerrie, Phil, Nick and Alex
Doreen, I feel so privileged to have worked with you as part of the team at Doncare for 18 years.
Your unswerving commitment to the care of others at an interpersonal level was also matched at the organizational level.
Doreen – you will be missed by many. I for one is so grateful to have had the opportunity to learn from you. I always admired your work, strong leadership, and how strong, caring and passionate you were. You always lived your values and was a true inspiration to all. You will be missed dearly and never forgotten!
Harshi
A moving tribute to a caring lady, you were an inspiration to so many Doreen and you will be dearly missed. You enriched the lives of so many who had almost given up hope and enabled them to see that life is worth living and helped them through the troubled times. You will be remembered. Condolences to her loving family. Colin and Di Bailey
Dear
Maureen and your beautiful family, we are sorry we were unable to be physically present with you today. We feel
Blessed to have shared so much with our
Doreen and will treasure our lovely memories of those times forever
With
Love,
Rest In Peace Doreen. RON and BETH KITCHINGMAN.
Deepest sympathy to Doreen’s family at this very sad time. I feel so blessed to have worked for Doreen and learnt so much from her. Doreen’s legacy will live on, her tireless contribution, compassion, dedication and commitment to others. Forever in our hearts. Rest in peace Doreen xx
Goodbye Doreen, and thank you for all you gave me. All the strength, belief, confidence, love, loyalty, values, leadership and laughter. That was a truly wonderful tribute today and I feel so privileged to have been able to bear witness to Doreen’s life. The songs were beautiful. The personal tributes were very moving. Thank you to all who worked so hard to bring together a beautiful service to honour her. Just viewing the pictures of her over the course of her life here in Australia and especially through her incredible work at Doncare and for the Manningham community was a gift. I am in awe of her energy and commitment. Doreen taught me how to be grown up, professional and still be yourself and live your truth and speak your values always through the work. She taught me how to mentor younger professionals and how to forgive yourself for all the mistakes you will make along the way and still show up and face the challenge the job presents. Gone but never far away, and I will channel you forever Doreen. <3
Doreen it was such a privilege to work under you at Doncare. Your respect and compassion for all of us and all clients shone through every part of your work and leadership. I learnt so much from you. You door was always open. My deep condolences and love to her family. May you know comfort is this time. Andrea Blake
I first met Doreen when we were in our 20’s – working together at Winlaton, a lifetime ago – another colleague from that time, Dinah Fawcett has also asked to be included here.
Our paths continued both personally and professionally in the decades that followed, she was a dear friend who I will forever miss, I have the memories of our lunches and dinners, shared stories, gushing over family photos and proud parent and grandparent moments.
There is no doubt Doreen was one of a kind. Her commitment to children, young people and those impacted by family violence has been reflected in so many programs she implemented and inspired and people she influenced – her legacy will live on.
My condolences to Maureen and the family, she loved and was so proud of all of you.
Sue Carlile, CEO, Family Access Network
How fortunate I was to be able to be a Volunteer at Doncare during the time Doreen was CEO. This was a wonderful experience and has enabled me to believe in myself after being retired for some time. Sincere condolences to Maureen and Doreen’s extended family at this sad time. We will all miss Doreen’s smile and laughter.
Remembering happy times at Winlaton and Doncare.
You always had a happy smile and cared about all the volunteers at Doncare.
Our thoughts are with Maureen and the family at this very sad time.
Thank you, Doreen, for all you did for me. Rest now and be at peace.
To Doreen’s family:
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about Doreen’s passing. We are here to support you in your grieving process. Please accept our sincere sympathy.
I have a firm recollection from around the mid 1970s of interviewing Doreen Stoves when she was seeking employment at Winlaton Youth Training Centre in Nunawading. She would have been in her mid-twenties and freshly arrived in Australia after working in the British correctional system. She impressed as someone likely to have the necessary friendly, fair and, when necessary, firm approach likely to be of benefit to the young women in our care. We were rewarded when she commenced work as a youth officer rapidly proving her trustworthiness and dedication to advocating for and meeting their needs as they faced the disadvantages and hurdles which often peppered their pathways. As a conscientious staff member, she rose through the ranks to senior and executive roles over a period exceeding my tenure there. In the decades since, our paths have crossed directly from time to time when questions of common interest have come up and from a distance, I have observed the very significant challenges she took on in the Chief Executive roles at Allambie Reception Centre and later Doncare. Her integrity was a constant and she expanded her initial training and grounded common sense with further skill development to extend her knowledge when necessary. I am impressed by the string of civil and civic roles undertaken and awards received. Also impressive, are the words written and spoken about her contributions to community life and the remarkable family legacy she built with Maureen White who I remember well as another dedicated staff member from my stint at Allambie in the early eighties. Doreen’s contribution has been great and she would have had much more to give. Though her passing, I feel, has come too soon, she leaves many memories and benefits for those whose lives she touched. Lloyd Owen
Doreen thank you for ‘doing things your way’ the many lives that were blessed and enriched because of that are countless. Your passion, energy and commitment to the vulnerable in the community is a legacy that will shine well beyond your time. May your body Rest In Peace and your spirit dwell in all those whose lives you have touched….
What an incredible woman. How blessed we all are to have known Doreen. Sending my deepest condolences to her lovely family. Thanks so much for sharing your amazing reflections of Doreen.
Her strength and genuine passion to make a difference will burn bright in every one of us. RIP Doreen
I will never forget my time at Doncare, under Doreen’s amazing leadership and the great team who worked with her. She inspired me in my career, with her deep sense of justice, her fierce sense of conviction and honesty and that will stay with me always. She was just so passionate about people.
My sincere condolences to her family, friends and colleagues. She will be so missed. A life so well lived.
Oh Doreen – you will be greatly missed. The impact you have had on so many people is immense and enduring, and you leave a deep legacy. Hopefully you’re watching on from above, enjoying a well-earned champagne or wine, in a beautiful crystal glass. Cheers xx
Doreen, thank you for being you and for everything you bought to every life you touched. We in the family violence sector learned so much from our connections and time with you. You will always be in our hearts and memories, thank you and go well:). Wendy
No one was more passionate, determined and thoughtful about keeping women and children safe than Doreen. She has inspired and taught so many of us, and her legacy continues in the organisations, policies and programs she initiated and drove and the many lives she touched.
Deep love and respect to you all. Thank you for the beautiful service honouring Doreen’s life. Many cherished memories of being her friend and colleague will be held in my heart. Go gently xx
RIP Doreen it was a privilege to know and work with you. Thank you for your wisdom and lived example of compassionate caring and leading. Your legacy will not be forgotten.
With love and friendship,
Ian.
A beautiful service for an incredible woman. A trail blazing leader full of compassion, determination and hope. She inspired and supported so many and her legacy will live on in all of us who have been fortunate enough to have experienced all she offered. May we all continue working to meet the ideals she strived tirelessly towards.
Doreen, it was such a privilege to work with you and benefit from your wisdom, leadership and friendship. I will miss you deeply. My deepest condolences to Maureen, Nick, Roman and the extended family.
With much love
Sue
Farewell Doreen. You were a unique human with a heart of gold. A great leader in which I learnt so much. Condolences to Maureen, your beautiful children and extended family. You will never be forgotten. RIP
Love Daniela
What an extremely caring, generous and determined person. Doreen’s incredible contribution to Manningham through Doncare cannot be measured.
On behalf of Manningham, we are grateful that Doreen has enriched the lives of so many in so many ways. Our sincere condolences to Doreen’s family.
Doreen, while you will be sadly missed by many you have left an incredible legacy for many more.
May you rest in peace.
Thank you Doreen for all you did for all of us at Doncare. You made it such a special place, you taught us so much, you were one of a kind. Condolences to all your friends and family.
Doreen it was a privilege to know you. I have so many wonderful memories of your wisdom and kindness. My late Mum loved you. I remember when she gave you her electric scooter you personally came around with a gift to thank her. Mum was delighted. Fly high Doreen. I’m saddened that we never had that post retirement coffee. Till we meet again.
I did not know Doreen personally, but her legacy lives on at Doncare and is very much felt in the organisation. Thank you for a beautiful service and my condolences to her family, friends and loved ones. Warm regards, Doris
Doreen – you touched my life like no other. I am so sad that you have gone and I only got to spend a couple of years with you. You inspired me to be a better version of myself. Your life of service was inspiring as was your wisdom, kindness, humor and compassion to everyone who met you. The world really has lost an incredible human being, so many will honor the legacy you have passed to us. My love goes out to Maureen and the family as well as to every person who heart Doreen touched. You leave a big hole in our lives xxx
Dear Doreen, how important you were to me. I have enjoyed seeing so many lovely photos of us together today and I am thrilled you invited me to become a Patron for Doncare. It was such an honour and we shared many special occasions. You were my greatest support and always someone I could trust and confide in. You believed in me when I faltered and your loyalty was something I never took for granted. Thank you. I shall miss you. With much love, Rosie x
Doreen, I feel privileged to have known you and gotten to work with you even only if for a short time. You have left a lasting legacy and I am so grateful to have made a contribution to your work at Doncare through the Asian Australian Foundation.
You will be missed by many.
Condolences to your family and friends at this time.
Your commitment and dedication were inspirational to me. Thank you so much for your tireless service to the community, your work benefited more lives than you could know.
Hannah Kelle, Doncare volunteer
Doreen made a huge impact on those she encountered and will be dearly missed. Doreen was a passionate, hard working and committed advocate for those who needed her help and assistance the most.
My sincere condolences to Doreen’s family.
I was blessed to have known Doreen and worked with her on emergency housing.
RIP Doreen.
We have lost a absolute giant of the Manningham community. A caring and authentic leader whose selflessness and dedication set a lasting and very high benchmark. My condolences to Maureen and family.
It was a privilege to know Doreen and witness the wonderful work she did to support so many community people through Doncare. She certainly made her mark in the world and we are grateful for everything she has done in her amazing life. Thank you Doreen. Sincere condolences to her family. Rest In Peace. Kind regards Liz and Anthony Phillips
Doreen’s passionate and tireless work on behalf of families, children and the community was an inspiration for us all. It was a privilege to be a colleague. Doreen, you are greatly missed but your legacy continues.
To Maureen and family,
Doreen will never be forgotten as her legacy lives on in the hearts of thousands she touched through her tireless work. Including mine.
With love
Michelle
Doreen I feel grateful and honored to continue the amazing legacy you left at Doncare. We will miss you and will do our best to continue with the passion and energy you demonstrated. With great respect Gaby Thomson and all of the past and present volunteers and staff you supported so strongly
Doreen you are an amazing advocate for Children and Families in Victoria. Your incredible leadership and kindness and feisty spirit will be sadly missed and your strength to do what was good and right, fighting for those that needed to be heard.
So loved by so many.
On behalf of the Board, staff and all of the Centre for Excellence In child and Family welfare Community.
our condolences to family and friends.
There would have been people 300 people in Warrandyte today, celebrating Doreen’s incredible life, but for COVID! She did an incredible job as CEO of Doncare for 19 years and will be sorely missed. Condolences to all her family, friends and former colleagues at Doncare and the various other institutions she ably assisted over the decades.
What a privilege to have witnessed your passion, compassion, integrity and professionalism as you fought for the less fortunate of our Community. It was always a pleasure to be in your company as you advocated for everyone who needed your help. Your leadership of Doncare was a lesson in determination amid a struggle for the necessary funding to meet the demand for services.
You will be sadly missed by all who met you during your Doncare journey – we are all honoured to have known you and to have assisted you in some small way.
Condolences to all your loved ones and colleagues
The Bendigo Community Banks of Manningham
You were a kind-hearted woman with lots of love.
You were always there to assist others.
Thank you for assisting me with my English and allowed me to experience the Aussie Family Culture.
I am not good at baking bread. However, I appreciated that you enjoyed my Vietnamese Springrolls.
You will never be forgotten.
Always loving – Always loved.
Such an incredible life of service by such an inspiring woman. To the formidable Doreen Stoves, you will be missed enormously. My heart goes to all those who loved and cherished Doreen. I wish we could all be there together today to honour Doreen’s legacy. We are there in spirit with you Maureen, Nick and Roman. Sending you strength and my sincerest condolences.
My heartfelt condolences to Doreen’s family. She was an incredible woman who had such a great impact on so many. She will be sorely missed. May her soul rest in peace and may her family and friends find comfort at this difficult time.
Doreen you were an inspiration to all who watched you in your duties at Doncare, the community of Doncaster Templestowe have been rewarded by your unselfish service
Our sympathy to your family and all who mourn your passing
Doreen and I first met in our 20’s when we worked together at Winlaton, a lifetime ago. Since then our lives have continued to connect up both professionally and personally. I have valued her friendship, loyalty, shared times and bragging photos of our grandchildren and family. She was definitely one of a kind. Her commitment to and advocacy for young people, children, those impacted by family violence are legacies that have transformed lives and will live on in the programs she developed and inspired and those of us who had the good fortune to walk alongside her in some of them.
My deepest condolences to Maureen and the family
Sue Carlile
RIP dearest Doreen. What an amazing, strong, resilient and joyful person. Always one to help and support. The Y was a better place because of our partnership. Our deepest condolences to Maureen, Nick, Roman and family. On behalf of the Y(MCA), Michele Rowse – CEO Y Whittlesea
Your selflessness and sweet caring personality will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing you. Thank you for everything you did for the community.
With love
Cr Anna Chen (Deputy Mayor)
Manningham City Council
Doreen, how I miss you. Thank you for all you have taught me not least of all for your wonderful example of leadership.
Thinking of all the people you have touched and made a change to their lives just by being you.
Wish we could all be together to celebrate your wonderful life.
With love Helen & Hamish
I have a firm recollection from around the mid 1970s of interviewing Doreen Stoves when she was seeking employment at Winlaton Youth Training Centre in Nunawading. She would have been in her mid-twenties and freshly arrived in Australia after working in the British correctional system. She impressed as someone likely to have the necessary friendly, fair and, when necessary, firm approach likely to be of benefit to the young women in our care. We were rewarded when she commenced work as a youth officer rapidly proving her trustworthiness and dedication to advocating for and meeting their needs as they faced the disadvantages and hurdles which often peppered their pathways. As a conscientious staff member, she rose through the ranks to senior and executive roles over a period exceeding my tenure there. In the decades since, our paths have crossed directly from time to time when questions of common interest have come up and from a distance, I have observed the very significant challenges she took on in the Chief Executive roles at Allambie Reception Centre and later Doncare. Her integrity was a constant and she expanded her initial training and grounded common sense with further skill development to extend her knowledge when necessary. I am impressed by the string of civil and civic roles undertaken and awards received. Also impressive, are the words written and spoken about her contributions to community life and the remarkable family legacy she built with Maureen White who I remember well as another dedicated staff member from my stint at Allambie in the early eighties. Doreen’s contribution has been great and she would have had much more to give. Though her passing, I feel, has come too soon, she leaves many memories and benefits for those whose lives she touched. Lloyd OwenL
The most amazing and generous person who will be sadly missed by all those she touched none more so than her family. RIP Doreen, Manningham LGA is a better place because of you and your passion and devotion to community. Susan McLean (former Vic Pol Doncaster)
To dear Christine, David, Maureen,Deb, Lee, Dom, Tan, Rocci, Ang, Talisha, Sarah, Nicholas and Roman. My sincerest , heartfelt condolences to you all as you mourn the loss of Doreen. I feel truly blessed to have known her and to have had the great privilege of working under her leadership at Doncare. Not only was she an amazing mentor, but she surrounded me her wisdom and support during a very difficult time personally. I will never forget her. Her door was always open.
To all of the Doncare family….we may be physically distanced right now, but we are united. God bless you all.
Martine
We thought Doreen was magnificent and a wonderful leader at Doncare.
She always greeted staff, volunteers and students with equal enthusiasm.
Her commitment to social justice and care of vulnerable people was an inspiration to us all.
She was great to work with and along side. The SaSSing choir will miss her support.
We send our condolences to her family.
Doreen, you were a force of nature! You were a truly decent, compassionate and astute woman. You were an entirely supportive supervisor and generous in sharing your insights and knowledge. You didn’t suffer fools and when necessary, took no prisoners. I love that about you! You were also soft, kind and fearless! It was comforting knowing you were a driver and an ally to the family violence sector. You always spoke with such pride and love of your family, children and grandchildren.
I love you and will miss you.
Devorah
Doreen,
You are a kind-hearted woman with lots of love.
You are always there to assist others.
Thank you for assisting me with my English and allowed me to experience the Aussie Family Culture.
I am not good at baking bread. However, I appreciated that you enjoyed my Vietnamese Springrolls.
You will never be forgotten.
Always loving – Always loved.
My wonderful friend & colleague- your smiling face will be sadly missed.
Thank you for the years we worked closely together & the support you gave me.
With love
Esther Murray
Goodbye dear friend of 50 years. I will always remember our very happy times in Holloway when we were just 21. You were one of the best buddies I ever had, and I will remember you forever. Thank you for the wonderful holiday we spent with you, Maureen and all your family in Sept 2018, we loved every minute. Sheila and I still say that it was the best holiday we have ever had and we doubt that it will ever be matched. We look all the time at the dozens and dozens of fantastic photos we have of the time we all spent together with you and the family, and we will treasure them, along with our beautiful memories, forever. Rest in peace my beautiful friend, I will miss our FaceTime chats AND YOU very much. Fondest farewell and love from Dot & Sheila. U K. XX
I did not have the opportunity to know you for long, but wanted to thank you, what a lasting impression you made Doreen!
To your beautiful family, I promise to help them find the home that was meant for you all.
May you Rest In Peace knowing the world is so much better for having you in it beautiful, kind and strong lady.
Much love to Maureen, Nick and Ronan.
Doreen was our tireless Leader for 20 years , who leaves behind a legacy of dedication, compassion, and love. Doreen fought for some of the most vulnerable people in the Manningham community. Doreen did this With a heart full of love and changed the lives of so many that felt they had nobody in their corner. And her support to the SASSING choir will be missed.
Condolences to all her family.
Doreen inspired so many myself included. Doreen started as my manager and become my friend and mentor. I learnt to be a better person because of her. No matter where we go, we take a bit of Doreen with us. Thank you for all you have done for me, your community and family. Vale Doreen
My sincere condolences to Doreen’s family, friends & her many Doncare work colleagues. Doreen will always hold a special place in my heart. Without her passion for supporting woman & survivors of domestic violence, I would not be the woman I am today. I think of Doreen every time I sing.
A wise woman; a caring colleague and a beautiful supervisor who supported my through some of my biggest challenges. On behalf of the young people and families you supported; cared about and wored with – Thank you.
What a woman! What a caring, compassionate and driven leader! Doreen you truly were one in a million and like so many others, I loved you. Its truly cruel that you won’t get to enjoy a long, well earned retirement with your family and that you have been taken too soon. But, what an extraordinary life and what a huge contribution you made to the people of your adopted country. I honour you today, and always. As we would say in New Zealand, a mighty Totara (tree) has fallen. Nga mihi, (thank you), and Arohanui (big love).
To Maureen, Nick, Roman and the rest of your family. my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to you all.
So very sad to say goodbye to such a wonderful woman and so very sorry that Maureen, Nick, Roman and the rest of Doreen’s extended family weren’t all able to be together today to share comfort and grief as we farewelled Doreen.
I was privileged to work with Doreen at Doncare. She gave me a lot of support personally when I was going through some difficult times.
Doreen was an inspiration. I learnt such a lot from her about ethical and compassionate leadership and management combined with a driving determination for social justice.
For Doreen herself, I’m so very sorry that her time with her beautiful family, friends, colleagues and others around her was cut short.
Vale Meredith Bubner
Sending heartfelt condolences to Doreen’s family during this difficult time. May you take comfort in the happy memories and the knowledge that she loved you all dearly. It was a pleasure to be part of her Doncare team a few years back. Doreen was a true champion for those in need and will not be forgotten x
What a beautiful life so passionately lived.
Your skill of making everyone feel valued was amazing. I will never forget the period I was a volunteer and then a staff member at Doncare.
You are missed.
Condolences to Doreen’s family
Doreen you took me into your heart and I have you in mine. You took the bull by the horns and worked with love and wisdom and gentleness and righteousness and compassion. You were so proud of your 3 daughters and your grand children, and Nick and Roman. A special gentleness when you share about your “very dear Friend” Maureen. An AGM at the Veneto club was a joyous celebration with possibly one of the largest gatherings at an AGM.Truly a team player – no one left out. Presentations, acknowlegements, Laughs, good food, always looking a million dollars. you stretched the Dollars, 600 volunteers at some stages. We love you and miss you.
Dearest Aunty Doreen
How foolish of us to feel we always had more time. My girls watched in awe as your peers spoke of your achievements and dedication to those in need. A life cut short, if only we had more time. I watch and listen as my girls develop into young ladies and realize they have a lot in common with their great aunty Doreen. An inspiration that will live on in all our hearts forever. We will love you always. Lee, Tanya, Talisha and Sarah. X
To my incredible Aunty Doreen.
Why did it take your passing for me to find out just how much of a contribution you made to Australia?
Such a humble amazing person and I am so sorry I never took the time to find all of this out. Life is so short yet you contributed so, so much to the community and to your family.
The girls watched the service online and they were amazed at your achievements. You are an inspiration to them and me and I am so sorry I never took that extra time to know you better.
My favourite Aunty and an absolute hero to the community, especially in the fight against injustice and in the support of victims of domestic violence.
Never forgotten. Love you x
My condolences and those of Helen, to you Maureen and to your family and to the amazing breadth of people which Doreen touched. Doreen’s life and yours with her truly transcends the everyday.
I had the honour and privilege of being both a contributor to fundraising for Doncare and a recipient of their help in my time of need (Doncaster Balcony Collapse). Doreen has left an imprint in my heart that will never be erased. Her presence will still be felt for generations to come as she has left such an amazing legacy! RIP to a beautiful woman.
Heartfelt condolences to Maureen and to all of Doreen’s family.
It has been an immense privilege for both of us to have known Doreen over many years and admire her inspirational leadership, fearless advocacy and tireless work empowering so many children and families.
On a personal note, we will always be grateful to both Doreen and Maureen for supporting our daughter Karen, during a difficult period in her life, as her ‘aunties’, and then years later joining us at Magnetic island and being MC at Karen and Dave’s wedding.
Doreen will always be loved, missed and have a special place in our hearts.
ITWas such a lovely service for DOREEN i got to learn so much about her all the wonderful things she had done, such a wonderful person, REST IN PEACE DOREEN.
My sincere and heartfelt condolences to Doreen’s family. May her soul rest in peace.
Unni Vayalil
Some people come into our lives for awhile, and then have to leave. Doreen from the beginning of my time volunteering in the office at Doncare, always acknowledged my presence. A smile from afar, or a passing ‘hello how are you?’ and often times a gentle hand on the shoulder. Her presence was formidable, authentic and all consuming.
She left a legacy that will remain, and I thank her for her part in my journey at Doncare.
My sincere condolences to all her beloveds.
So many memories of an amazing person. I had the privilege of working with Doreen the entire time she was at Doncare. Her support, forthrightness, wicked sense of humour, and generous heart will be greatly missed. A one of a kind lady. Sincere condolences to Maureen and family.
I am honoured to have known you. Thank you for your support and care and the many wonderful contributions you have made at MC Square. You are an inspiration to all women and I will never forget your vibrant smile and your endless passion for supporting the community. My sincere condolences to your family and friends.
Doreen
The Doncare Depot team are eternally grateful to you especially and Bendigo Bank for the truck helping to make our job so much easier.
You were always thinking of others and supporting your volunteers.
A person of dignity integrity and humility and passionate Advocate for those in need.
A great pleasure to work for you.
Peter and Depot team
A beautiful service for a remarkable lady who was an inspiration to us all. Sincere condolences to Doreen’s family.
I feel so privileged to have been assigned to work with Doreen and Maureen as Nick’s foster care worker. It must have taken all of their strength to put up with yet another young and relatively inexperienced worker entering their home! Nonetheless Doreen had the grace to allow me to play my role and showed me respect, probably above that which I deserved at the time. Doreen was a fantastic mum! I remember hearing stories about a time when Nick was very young and Doreen cuddled him to her chest over several days and nights while he recovered from illness. The bond between them was undeniable! Despite her busy professional life, Doreen always seemed to have time for her family. I remember many discussions around the kitchen table. Doreen had endless pride in all her family and always beamed as she spoke about Nick’s early development and milestones. She was also a fierce advocate and I was happy to be advocating with her and not against her! Needless to say, I learnt a great deal from Doreen and Maureen. I was also inspired by them. I hope, at least at some level, I can emulate Doreen’s passion in her work, and her dedication and love for her family!
Sincerest condolences to Doreen’s close and extended family, and to the Doncare family, and the myriad of colleagues who are mourning her. I still can’t believe she is really gone from this world. Oh to hear that wonderful laugh again! Or to once more witness her righteous fury at a social injustice. I learned so much from you, dear Doreen, about leadership and love, about courage and the power of connection. Loving service was always your priority, and you tackled every challenge with a daunting eagerness. Your legacy is huge, your life-changing influence will continue to ripple through those you touched. The most true to herself person I have ever worked with. Today I have tears, but always I will have wondered memories.
Dear Doreen, you left this world in a better place than you found it. Your reach and influence is immeasurable. A female leader who lived and breathed her values with heart, compassion and determination. There is no better role model. You will be missed and never forgotten. Our heart goes out to your family.
With love Paula Piccinini
What a legacy you leave behind. The world is truly a better place for all the hard work you did yourself and that will continue on due to your inspiration. I am grateful for having worked with you and in the wonderful workplace you created at Doncare.
My heartfelt condolences to Maureen, Nick, Roman and all of Doreen’s family, of whom she was so proud. Doreen was always very supportive of me and encouraged me to go outside my comfort zone, for which I am grateful. She was a strong leader and advocate who was not above washing dishes after Doncare events, as she so often did. I think of her whenever I’m in my garden and see an azalea she gave me.
Doreen, thank you for all you did for me, for Doncare staff, clients and volunteers, and for the Manningham community and beyond. May you rest in peace.
Dear Maureen and family. I send my deep condolences to you on losing Doreen so suddenly. I am greatly saddened that I won’t see her again and laugh and talk with meaning as we once did. The beautiful service and tributes recalled her personality and convictions so clearly; she came back to my mind in full Doreen force. I admired her when we worked together at Allambie with other dedicated and passionate people (you Maureen, Barb, Betty, Martin, Mick, Johan, Val, Margie, Aileen, John, Kerry, so many others). We were part of a driven and caring team to care for children and young people. How lucky we were to have each other in that mission. Clearly Doreen’s commitment and endeavour was life long. She led the way Amazon-style (save the bare breast!), and gave people safe and loving passage. May she have that now, and rest in peace, and in our hearts and minds. Sandra
To Maureen and family l am sorry for your loss. Doreen will be greatly missed.
I haven’t had much contact with Doreen over the last couple of years but my time of being one of her managers at Doncare has left me with some very fond memories. Looking at the photos in the videos has brought back a number of those memories – one is that Doreen always had a jacket and a scarf for every situation! We both shared the love of owls and a particular wildlife painter Paul Margoscy. Doreen was a hard working and highly ethical person who was able to have a good laugh when we needed it. she was always happy to chat about her family and catch up about mine as well. I learnt a lot from Doreen and will always appreciate her guidance and support. We had good times together that made up for the difficult stuff. She had a big heart!
How lucky are we to have had Doreen in our lives!
She demonstrated honesty, openness, transparency, trust and a belief in others that they could do things they didn’t think possible. For that, I will always be grateful.
Maureen, Roman, Nick, my heart goes out to you. I hope you can hold on to the many good memories you shared with her. I know she loved you very much.
What an inspirational leader Doreen was at Doncare. Gone but never forgotten.
Sincere condolences to her family.
Robyn
Doncare Volunteer
Weren’t we lucky to have had the privilege of knowing you Doreen. I’m especially thankful for the support you have shown over the years,
Maureen, Nick and family, I hope that the days ahead are gentle.
Sincerely
Melinda McGinley
Farewell Doreen. I will never forget how wonderfully supportive you were to me when I needed you. Your passion and commitment will long be remembered as will you. My deepest condolences to Maureen, Nick, Roman and the extended family.
Travel well
Kate Haberle
What a truly amazing, caring and fiercely passionate woman. Thank you, Doreen, for all you have done. You will be greatly missed. May you rest in peace knowing how much you have meant to so many and that so many more will continue to benefit from the services, opportunities and supports you created. My deepest condolences.
Thank you, Doreen, for the spirit of justice and generosity you inspired in me as a volunteer at Doncare.
Condolences to your family and loved ones.
love,
Jeannie
My condolences to Maureen and family.
May you Rest In Peace Doreen.
I always admired your strength and kind heart. I learnt a lot from you while working with you at Allambie and DHS. Many good memories.
Carol
Dear Doreen, my ‘wise owl’ friend. How often I sat in your office at Doncare admiring and counting your amazing collection of owls 🙂 There is so much that I will remember and miss about you. The love you had for your family and friends was palpable and the passion you had for things being right infectious. I’m grateful for having had you in my life and thank you for your love and support during our time at Safe Futures and beyond. RIP
RIP Doreen. It was a privilege to work in Doncare under your great leadership. You have my utmost admiration and respect. You will be sadly missed.
As a volunteer at Doncare for the last 8 years, I admired Doreen immensely for her strength, resilience and most of all her big heart! She ensured that as volunteers, we always felt valued and respected and treated like staff members. May she rest in peace.
Deepest condolences to Maureen and family, Doreen was truly one of a kind. What a privilege and honour to have known her. Doreen you will forever be remembered.
Doreen
You touched many,
You led genuinely,
You paved the way
You inspired others
You supported the vulnerable
You empowered people
You truely were a remarkable woman.
who will be missed by all that knew you
Thank you for being the incredible person, I had the pleasure to work with. May you rest in peace and your memory and passion for social change always drive us towards great things. With love Vicki Martinez
Doreen was an exceptional person who led by example. Doreen you will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences and love to Maureen, Nick, Roman and all your family.
Doreen it was an amazing journey and working with you was an immense privilege. I was lucky to have had the opportunity to work for you and with you at Doncare and to work beside you at Refuge Victoria. Working with you were some of the happiest of my working life – we worked hard and often under difficult circumstance but we certainly had a lot of fun along the way.You taught us all how to work respectfully with and for our clients and how to inspire our workforce and understand that they all bring different perspectives and life experiences to their role.Our thoughts are with your family at this difficult time. We will miss you terribly. All our love Kerrie, Phil, Nick and Alex
Farewell Doreen, it was a privilege to have worked with and known you. Warmest condolences to your family, of whom you were so proud.
Doreen, I feel so privileged to have worked with you as part of the team at Doncare for 18 years.
Your unswerving commitment to the care of others at an interpersonal level was also matched at the organizational level.
‘You truly put service above self’
Irene Gerrard
Doreen – you will be missed by many. I for one is so grateful to have had the opportunity to learn from you. I always admired your work, strong leadership, and how strong, caring and passionate you were. You always lived your values and was a true inspiration to all. You will be missed dearly and never forgotten!
Harshi
A moving tribute to a caring lady, you were an inspiration to so many Doreen and you will be dearly missed. You enriched the lives of so many who had almost given up hope and enabled them to see that life is worth living and helped them through the troubled times. You will be remembered. Condolences to her loving family. Colin and Di Bailey
Dear
Maureen and your beautiful family, we are sorry we were unable to be physically present with you today. We feel
Blessed to have shared so much with our
Doreen and will treasure our lovely memories of those times forever
With
Love,
Rest In Peace Doreen. RON and BETH KITCHINGMAN.
Deepest sympathy to Doreen’s family at this very sad time. I feel so blessed to have worked for Doreen and learnt so much from her. Doreen’s legacy will live on, her tireless contribution, compassion, dedication and commitment to others. Forever in our hearts. Rest in peace Doreen xx
Goodbye Doreen, and thank you for all you gave me. All the strength, belief, confidence, love, loyalty, values, leadership and laughter. That was a truly wonderful tribute today and I feel so privileged to have been able to bear witness to Doreen’s life. The songs were beautiful. The personal tributes were very moving. Thank you to all who worked so hard to bring together a beautiful service to honour her. Just viewing the pictures of her over the course of her life here in Australia and especially through her incredible work at Doncare and for the Manningham community was a gift. I am in awe of her energy and commitment. Doreen taught me how to be grown up, professional and still be yourself and live your truth and speak your values always through the work. She taught me how to mentor younger professionals and how to forgive yourself for all the mistakes you will make along the way and still show up and face the challenge the job presents. Gone but never far away, and I will channel you forever Doreen. <3
Doreen it was such a privilege to work under you at Doncare. Your respect and compassion for all of us and all clients shone through every part of your work and leadership. I learnt so much from you. You door was always open. My deep condolences and love to her family. May you know comfort is this time. Andrea Blake
I first met Doreen when we were in our 20’s – working together at Winlaton, a lifetime ago – another colleague from that time, Dinah Fawcett has also asked to be included here.
Our paths continued both personally and professionally in the decades that followed, she was a dear friend who I will forever miss, I have the memories of our lunches and dinners, shared stories, gushing over family photos and proud parent and grandparent moments.
There is no doubt Doreen was one of a kind. Her commitment to children, young people and those impacted by family violence has been reflected in so many programs she implemented and inspired and people she influenced – her legacy will live on.
My condolences to Maureen and the family, she loved and was so proud of all of you.
Sue Carlile, CEO, Family Access Network
How fortunate I was to be able to be a Volunteer at Doncare during the time Doreen was CEO. This was a wonderful experience and has enabled me to believe in myself after being retired for some time. Sincere condolences to Maureen and Doreen’s extended family at this sad time. We will all miss Doreen’s smile and laughter.
Remembering happy times at Winlaton and Doncare.
You always had a happy smile and cared about all the volunteers at Doncare.
Our thoughts are with Maureen and the family at this very sad time.
With love, Margaret Gibb.
Thank you, Doreen, for all you did for me. Rest now and be at peace.
To Doreen’s family:
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about Doreen’s passing. We are here to support you in your grieving process. Please accept our sincere sympathy.
I have a firm recollection from around the mid 1970s of interviewing Doreen Stoves when she was seeking employment at Winlaton Youth Training Centre in Nunawading. She would have been in her mid-twenties and freshly arrived in Australia after working in the British correctional system. She impressed as someone likely to have the necessary friendly, fair and, when necessary, firm approach likely to be of benefit to the young women in our care. We were rewarded when she commenced work as a youth officer rapidly proving her trustworthiness and dedication to advocating for and meeting their needs as they faced the disadvantages and hurdles which often peppered their pathways. As a conscientious staff member, she rose through the ranks to senior and executive roles over a period exceeding my tenure there. In the decades since, our paths have crossed directly from time to time when questions of common interest have come up and from a distance, I have observed the very significant challenges she took on in the Chief Executive roles at Allambie Reception Centre and later Doncare. Her integrity was a constant and she expanded her initial training and grounded common sense with further skill development to extend her knowledge when necessary. I am impressed by the string of civil and civic roles undertaken and awards received. Also impressive, are the words written and spoken about her contributions to community life and the remarkable family legacy she built with Maureen White who I remember well as another dedicated staff member from my stint at Allambie in the early eighties. Doreen’s contribution has been great and she would have had much more to give. Though her passing, I feel, has come too soon, she leaves many memories and benefits for those whose lives she touched. Lloyd Owen
Doreen thank you for ‘doing things your way’ the many lives that were blessed and enriched because of that are countless. Your passion, energy and commitment to the vulnerable in the community is a legacy that will shine well beyond your time. May your body Rest In Peace and your spirit dwell in all those whose lives you have touched….
What an incredible woman. How blessed we all are to have known Doreen. Sending my deepest condolences to her lovely family. Thanks so much for sharing your amazing reflections of Doreen.
Her strength and genuine passion to make a difference will burn bright in every one of us. RIP Doreen
I will never forget my time at Doncare, under Doreen’s amazing leadership and the great team who worked with her. She inspired me in my career, with her deep sense of justice, her fierce sense of conviction and honesty and that will stay with me always. She was just so passionate about people.
My sincere condolences to her family, friends and colleagues. She will be so missed. A life so well lived.
Oh Doreen – you will be greatly missed. The impact you have had on so many people is immense and enduring, and you leave a deep legacy. Hopefully you’re watching on from above, enjoying a well-earned champagne or wine, in a beautiful crystal glass. Cheers xx
Doreen, thank you for being you and for everything you bought to every life you touched. We in the family violence sector learned so much from our connections and time with you. You will always be in our hearts and memories, thank you and go well:). Wendy
No one was more passionate, determined and thoughtful about keeping women and children safe than Doreen. She has inspired and taught so many of us, and her legacy continues in the organisations, policies and programs she initiated and drove and the many lives she touched.
Rest in Peace Doreen.
Deep love and respect to you all. Thank you for the beautiful service honouring Doreen’s life. Many cherished memories of being her friend and colleague will be held in my heart. Go gently xx
A beautiful person taken too soon who did so much for all
My heart felt condolences
Christine David Deborah and Lee
Maureen and family
Doreen you will be missed by the entire community, it was a privilege for us to work closely with you and Doncare over the years.
Our condolences to Maureen and the family.
Lisa and Ian Waters
RIP Doreen it was a privilege to know and work with you. Thank you for your wisdom and lived example of compassionate caring and leading. Your legacy will not be forgotten.
With love and friendship,
Ian.
Fond memories of times gone by.
A special person.
RIP Doreen and warmest thoughts to all whose lives she touched.
Michelle
A beautiful service for an incredible woman. A trail blazing leader full of compassion, determination and hope. She inspired and supported so many and her legacy will live on in all of us who have been fortunate enough to have experienced all she offered. May we all continue working to meet the ideals she strived tirelessly towards.
Doreen, it was such a privilege to work with you and benefit from your wisdom, leadership and friendship. I will miss you deeply. My deepest condolences to Maureen, Nick, Roman and the extended family.
With much love
Sue
Farewell Doreen. You were a unique human with a heart of gold. A great leader in which I learnt so much. Condolences to Maureen, your beautiful children and extended family. You will never be forgotten. RIP
Love Daniela
What an extremely caring, generous and determined person. Doreen’s incredible contribution to Manningham through Doncare cannot be measured.
On behalf of Manningham, we are grateful that Doreen has enriched the lives of so many in so many ways. Our sincere condolences to Doreen’s family.
Doreen, while you will be sadly missed by many you have left an incredible legacy for many more.
May you rest in peace.
We were so privileged to have known such a wonderful lady you were a joy and we loved your stories. Rest in peace Dooreen.
Thank you Doreen for all you did for all of us at Doncare. You made it such a special place, you taught us so much, you were one of a kind. Condolences to all your friends and family.
Doreen it was a privilege to know you. I have so many wonderful memories of your wisdom and kindness. My late Mum loved you. I remember when she gave you her electric scooter you personally came around with a gift to thank her. Mum was delighted. Fly high Doreen. I’m saddened that we never had that post retirement coffee. Till we meet again.
A wonderful tribute to a beautiful lady. My love and condolences to Maureen and the White-Stoves family.
Such an amazing individual.
RIP
What an amazing woman, her contribution to the community was incredible.
Condolences to her family.
A wonderful tribute to a warm, caring and generous person. Vale Doreen.
Sending sincere condolences to Doreen’s family.
Thank you for all you did for the community.
May your legacy continue where everyone matters.
I did not know Doreen personally, but her legacy lives on at Doncare and is very much felt in the organisation. Thank you for a beautiful service and my condolences to her family, friends and loved ones. Warm regards, Doris
Doreen – you touched my life like no other. I am so sad that you have gone and I only got to spend a couple of years with you. You inspired me to be a better version of myself. Your life of service was inspiring as was your wisdom, kindness, humor and compassion to everyone who met you. The world really has lost an incredible human being, so many will honor the legacy you have passed to us. My love goes out to Maureen and the family as well as to every person who heart Doreen touched. You leave a big hole in our lives xxx
Dear Doreen, how important you were to me. I have enjoyed seeing so many lovely photos of us together today and I am thrilled you invited me to become a Patron for Doncare. It was such an honour and we shared many special occasions. You were my greatest support and always someone I could trust and confide in. You believed in me when I faltered and your loyalty was something I never took for granted. Thank you. I shall miss you. With much love, Rosie x
Doreen, I feel privileged to have known you and gotten to work with you even only if for a short time. You have left a lasting legacy and I am so grateful to have made a contribution to your work at Doncare through the Asian Australian Foundation.
You will be missed by many.
Condolences to your family and friends at this time.
A special human being who, clearly, “answered the call” and changed many lives along the way.
Christine, David, Deborah and Lee…..thinking of you today…..I share your sadness.
Sincere condolences to Maureen and family.
Rest easy now, Doreen.
Thank you
Patricia Bruce
Your commitment and dedication were inspirational to me. Thank you so much for your tireless service to the community, your work benefited more lives than you could know.
Hannah Kelle, Doncare volunteer
Many people will miss you but you will always be remembered for so much care given when it was needed.
Rest In Peace.
Doreen made a huge impact on those she encountered and will be dearly missed. Doreen was a passionate, hard working and committed advocate for those who needed her help and assistance the most.
My sincere condolences to Doreen’s family.
I was blessed to have known Doreen and worked with her on emergency housing.
RIP Doreen.
A wonderful servant to our Community and beyond. A very special person, who will be deeply missed. Gone too soon.
We have lost a absolute giant of the Manningham community. A caring and authentic leader whose selflessness and dedication set a lasting and very high benchmark. My condolences to Maureen and family.
Doreen’s legacy will endure.
Regards
Andrew Day
CEO Manningham City Council
Farewell Doreen. You will be missed by so many.
Condolences to your family.
Sincere condolences to Doreen’s family. I have fond memories of the many conversations we had over the years.
It was a privilege to know Doreen and witness the wonderful work she did to support so many community people through Doncare. She certainly made her mark in the world and we are grateful for everything she has done in her amazing life. Thank you Doreen. Sincere condolences to her family. Rest In Peace. Kind regards Liz and Anthony Phillips
RIP Doreen. Thinking of you all and sending love from Geelong. Sorry we couldn’t be there in person. Love from Elise, Barney, Henry and Frankie.
Many people will miss you and the great work that you gave done for them.
Rest in peace
Doreen’s passionate and tireless work on behalf of families, children and the community was an inspiration for us all. It was a privilege to be a colleague. Doreen, you are greatly missed but your legacy continues.
To Maureen and family,
Doreen will never be forgotten as her legacy lives on in the hearts of thousands she touched through her tireless work. Including mine.
With love
Michelle
Doreen I feel grateful and honored to continue the amazing legacy you left at Doncare. We will miss you and will do our best to continue with the passion and energy you demonstrated. With great respect Gaby Thomson and all of the past and present volunteers and staff you supported so strongly
Doreen you are an amazing advocate for Children and Families in Victoria. Your incredible leadership and kindness and feisty spirit will be sadly missed and your strength to do what was good and right, fighting for those that needed to be heard.
So loved by so many.
On behalf of the Board, staff and all of the Centre for Excellence In child and Family welfare Community.
our condolences to family and friends.
Deb x
There would have been people 300 people in Warrandyte today, celebrating Doreen’s incredible life, but for COVID! She did an incredible job as CEO of Doncare for 19 years and will be sorely missed. Condolences to all her family, friends and former colleagues at Doncare and the various other institutions she ably assisted over the decades.
What a privilege to have witnessed your passion, compassion, integrity and professionalism as you fought for the less fortunate of our Community. It was always a pleasure to be in your company as you advocated for everyone who needed your help. Your leadership of Doncare was a lesson in determination amid a struggle for the necessary funding to meet the demand for services.
You will be sadly missed by all who met you during your Doncare journey – we are all honoured to have known you and to have assisted you in some small way.
Condolences to all your loved ones and colleagues
The Bendigo Community Banks of Manningham
You were a kind-hearted woman with lots of love.
You were always there to assist others.
Thank you for assisting me with my English and allowed me to experience the Aussie Family Culture.
I am not good at baking bread. However, I appreciated that you enjoyed my Vietnamese Springrolls.
You will never be forgotten.
Always loving – Always loved.
Trinny
Such an incredible life of service by such an inspiring woman. To the formidable Doreen Stoves, you will be missed enormously. My heart goes to all those who loved and cherished Doreen. I wish we could all be there together today to honour Doreen’s legacy. We are there in spirit with you Maureen, Nick and Roman. Sending you strength and my sincerest condolences.
My heartfelt condolences to Doreen’s family. She was an incredible woman who had such a great impact on so many. She will be sorely missed. May her soul rest in peace and may her family and friends find comfort at this difficult time.
Doreen you were an inspiration to all who watched you in your duties at Doncare, the community of Doncaster Templestowe have been rewarded by your unselfish service
Our sympathy to your family and all who mourn your passing
Doreen and I first met in our 20’s when we worked together at Winlaton, a lifetime ago. Since then our lives have continued to connect up both professionally and personally. I have valued her friendship, loyalty, shared times and bragging photos of our grandchildren and family. She was definitely one of a kind. Her commitment to and advocacy for young people, children, those impacted by family violence are legacies that have transformed lives and will live on in the programs she developed and inspired and those of us who had the good fortune to walk alongside her in some of them.
My deepest condolences to Maureen and the family
Sue Carlile
Farewell Doreen, your tireless work in the community will be forever remembered. Condolences to your family.
RIP dearest Doreen. What an amazing, strong, resilient and joyful person. Always one to help and support. The Y was a better place because of our partnership. Our deepest condolences to Maureen, Nick, Roman and family. On behalf of the Y(MCA), Michele Rowse – CEO Y Whittlesea
Your selflessness and sweet caring personality will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing you. Thank you for everything you did for the community.
With love
Cr Anna Chen (Deputy Mayor)
Manningham City Council
Doreen, how I miss you. Thank you for all you have taught me not least of all for your wonderful example of leadership.
Thinking of all the people you have touched and made a change to their lives just by being you.
Wish we could all be together to celebrate your wonderful life.
With love Helen & Hamish
I have a firm recollection from around the mid 1970s of interviewing Doreen Stoves when she was seeking employment at Winlaton Youth Training Centre in Nunawading. She would have been in her mid-twenties and freshly arrived in Australia after working in the British correctional system. She impressed as someone likely to have the necessary friendly, fair and, when necessary, firm approach likely to be of benefit to the young women in our care. We were rewarded when she commenced work as a youth officer rapidly proving her trustworthiness and dedication to advocating for and meeting their needs as they faced the disadvantages and hurdles which often peppered their pathways. As a conscientious staff member, she rose through the ranks to senior and executive roles over a period exceeding my tenure there. In the decades since, our paths have crossed directly from time to time when questions of common interest have come up and from a distance, I have observed the very significant challenges she took on in the Chief Executive roles at Allambie Reception Centre and later Doncare. Her integrity was a constant and she expanded her initial training and grounded common sense with further skill development to extend her knowledge when necessary. I am impressed by the string of civil and civic roles undertaken and awards received. Also impressive, are the words written and spoken about her contributions to community life and the remarkable family legacy she built with Maureen White who I remember well as another dedicated staff member from my stint at Allambie in the early eighties. Doreen’s contribution has been great and she would have had much more to give. Though her passing, I feel, has come too soon, she leaves many memories and benefits for those whose lives she touched. Lloyd OwenL
The most amazing and generous person who will be sadly missed by all those she touched none more so than her family. RIP Doreen, Manningham LGA is a better place because of you and your passion and devotion to community. Susan McLean (former Vic Pol Doncaster)
To dear Christine, David, Maureen,Deb, Lee, Dom, Tan, Rocci, Ang, Talisha, Sarah, Nicholas and Roman. My sincerest , heartfelt condolences to you all as you mourn the loss of Doreen. I feel truly blessed to have known her and to have had the great privilege of working under her leadership at Doncare. Not only was she an amazing mentor, but she surrounded me her wisdom and support during a very difficult time personally. I will never forget her. Her door was always open.
To all of the Doncare family….we may be physically distanced right now, but we are united. God bless you all.
Martine
Farewell dear Doreen. You will be so sadly missed. Thank you for being you.
We thought Doreen was magnificent and a wonderful leader at Doncare.
She always greeted staff, volunteers and students with equal enthusiasm.
Her commitment to social justice and care of vulnerable people was an inspiration to us all.
She was great to work with and along side. The SaSSing choir will miss her support.
We send our condolences to her family.
Doreen, you were a force of nature! You were a truly decent, compassionate and astute woman. You were an entirely supportive supervisor and generous in sharing your insights and knowledge. You didn’t suffer fools and when necessary, took no prisoners. I love that about you! You were also soft, kind and fearless! It was comforting knowing you were a driver and an ally to the family violence sector. You always spoke with such pride and love of your family, children and grandchildren.
I love you and will miss you.
Devorah
Our sincere condolences to Doreen’s family.
Tony & Kathy Monley
How we wish we could all gather to celebrate the extraordinary life of a simply brilliant woman.
VALE Doreen
RIP Doreen. You will be sadly missed.
Condolences to your family.
Doreen,
You are a kind-hearted woman with lots of love.
You are always there to assist others.
Thank you for assisting me with my English and allowed me to experience the Aussie Family Culture.
I am not good at baking bread. However, I appreciated that you enjoyed my Vietnamese Springrolls.
You will never be forgotten.
Always loving – Always loved.
Love Trinny
My wonderful friend & colleague- your smiling face will be sadly missed.
Thank you for the years we worked closely together & the support you gave me.
With love
Esther Murray